Indeed, I am very much concern about my sister who feel in love with her friend and she had experienced unexpected break-up because her boyfriend is having a relationship with another girl.
After those cryings and advices, I get her straight to the point. I told her that "Don't rush into involving into another relationship." I pretty take this chance of telling her because she wants to bump in into another person just to heal the hurt that she is feeling which of course, I told her that it is a very unwise idea.
Indulging into another person just to cover the feeling of hurt is not a very good idea. I told her to calm down and just let the hurt go through so that she can understand everything and she will be able to face her problems with lessons learned.
I understand that my sister is coping with that kind of feeling that is of course hurtful. But it is wise and good not to escape such a hurtful feeling by letting everything flow in a good way that all will settle in the right manner.
Oftentimes, the lessons that people must learn comes from the hurtful experiences. And that is what I always tell my sister because the more she escapes life's reality, the more she will not grow and learn.
After those cryings and advices, I get her straight to the point. I told her that "Don't rush into involving into another relationship." I pretty take this chance of telling her because she wants to bump in into another person just to heal the hurt that she is feeling which of course, I told her that it is a very unwise idea.
Indulging into another person just to cover the feeling of hurt is not a very good idea. I told her to calm down and just let the hurt go through so that she can understand everything and she will be able to face her problems with lessons learned.
I understand that my sister is coping with that kind of feeling that is of course hurtful. But it is wise and good not to escape such a hurtful feeling by letting everything flow in a good way that all will settle in the right manner.
Oftentimes, the lessons that people must learn comes from the hurtful experiences. And that is what I always tell my sister because the more she escapes life's reality, the more she will not grow and learn.
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