How many days from now, it is the Heart's Day. For those who have lovers, they are blessed, but for loveless, they will just stare and be jealous for lover's treat.
Wait! Be jealous for lover's treat?
I have gone through experiencing being loveless during my teenage years and I have experienced numerous solitary Valentines Days. I can't remember how many lonely Februarys it were. I do experienced what others felt. They get jealous to others who happily share Valentines Day together, holding hands while walking, red roses for their girl, dine in the fine restaurants, chocolate treats, etc. I am not blind to that reality. But for how many Februarys I have been struggling to accept. there is no escape to the sense of reality, that Valentines Day is not just for lovers only. It is also for loveless too. In fact, when you feel along because you don't have a lover in celebrating this special day, you can celebrate it with friends, family or with yourself. How? Get up and socialize. Feel the air with no heartaches and never think of wild pain tomorrows. There are more reasons to celebrate life. Why don't you go out with friends or your family and have a dine at the finest, romantic place together. Exchange gifts and plan what to give to whom. You can do that whole day adventure. If and only if you want to spend it alone, involve yourself listening to music of your choice, chat with friends online and play video games, give oneself a treat or for more peaceful and romantic treat, make a poem or written compositions that you could outburst the words you have within.
I have realized that Valentines Day is not a day to be worried or to get pissed off nor to get panic. It is like an ordinary day that you should face. The way you give yourself a treat defines the kind of adventure you want to enjoy during the Heart's Day.
Stay happy and hopeful!
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